Monday, May 12, 2014

La vie francaise, tu me manqueras



After posting a list of the negative of living here, I can only post a list of things that I will miss about this place. It is hard to think that this is my last night in such a wonderful place that I have made into my little French home, but reflecting on all these amazing things makes my heart happy to have had this experience rather than sad about leaving.

Things I will miss about France

FOOD. Petit Ecolier cookies, pain au chocolat, fresh baguette (specifically tradition francaise from caracteres boulangerie), muesli au chocolat, green olive tapenade, croissants, orangina, duck. These are just what I could remember - really though, food here is just amazing! Including the way people eat and appreciate food, sitting down for three course meals for several hours at a time.

Fresh fruits and vegetables easily accessible. This goes along with the food idea - I am going to miss picking up fruits and veggies and knowing they came from local producers.

The weather. Constant blue skies and sunshine and a warm climate, with 300 days of sunshine a year. Don't be surprised if I go through seasonal affective disorder coming back to Michigan...

The friendly provencal “bonjour” I receive as I walk down the street. I swear, most days I feel like Belle from Beauty and the Beast. I will miss walking down the street and seeing people I know (students, teachers, etc.) but also greeting all the people I don't know. Whether you're stranger or friend, here in small town Provence, you always offer a big "bonjour!"

Hearing French everyday. Though sometimes all I wanted to hear was English, I have gotten so used to hearing this lovely language being spoken by its locals. It is rare to here in America, and I will miss it.

Being able to speak French everyday. When I arrived here, I was so scared to use the language. Unsure of myself and worried, I thought I would never improve my speaking skills, let alone enjoy speaking without huge amounts of anxiety. Now, I can say I truly enjoy speaking French, and am not worried so much about the mistakes I make when I speak - we are all human.

Provence sunrises. Opening up my blinds each morning to the sun peeking over the trees. Pure bliss. 

Hiking to a nearby village, or two, all in one day. Again, the perks of living in the Luberon.

The colors of Provencal architecture. The beautiful rusty orange, weathered taupe, musky coral buildings with periwinkle blue shutters

Street musicians constantly performing their craft. It wouldn't be a normal day if you didn't hear a lone accordion or a man strumming his guitar and singing songs.

SATURDAY MARKETS. Guys, I just really love markets. Especially Saturday markets in Apt. For a city that most times appears so dead, one would not know this on market day, where you have to shove through a seas of people to get anywhere. I will miss walking around with my straw basket, buying fresh produce and fish as well as other trinkets.

Cheap, but delicious, wine. Noone can go wrong with a 1.50 euro bottle of Cotes du Rhone!

Cheap, but delicious, seafood. Not always so cheap, but always so fresh!

French books for a euro. I have found so many great reads for so cheap, wish that the only option at home was ordering from Amazon.

Being able to hop on a train or plane and three hours later be in a different country. The ability to travel to an entire different culture in a very small amount of time. 

The ease and accessibility of train travel. America, when are you gonna step up your train game?!

History everywhere, within everything. They really know how to appreciate old things here, rather than the new always being so important in the States.

The rolling hills of the Luberon. Filled with vineyards and hillside villages

2 euro bus rides going up to 60 miles away. That's a good deal!

Ummm all boulangeries and patisseries. And all their amazing goodies. See my first item about food.

Not having a full work week. Having classes cancelled constantly, working 12 hours (but mostly less) per week.

Giving private English lessons. I really enjoyed giving private lessons this year. I feel like I have a huge strength in working with students on a one-to-one basis and plan to keep in contact with each of my students in the future!

Planning one lesson per week. Rather than the 15 to prepare a week as a French teacher in the US. Though I do admit, repeating one lesson 15 times got a little monotonous....

The people. Many of my fellow teachers, students, parents, friends have asked me what is the number one thing I will miss about living in France. My answer has always been this: the people I have met. Whether it was my French colleagues and students or the assistants I met from America and other countries, these people were so friendly and welcoming, helping me to feel at home in a place that was miles away from my comfort zone. Because of them, I was able to grow into the person I am today - more independent, self-assured, globally aware, and confident. Merci beaucoup to all of the amazing people I met here (and also to all of the amazing support I got from home!).

I don't know what my future has in store for me - when I look out on to the horizon, all I see is a hazy vision of a road ahead. Before this experience, that might have scared me; I was always one step ahead with planning my own life. But now, I know that it will be alright - things will fall into place as they should. All I have to do is take the next step. Merci bien, France, for leading me down this road, but now I think it's time for me to take a different path. I will be back someday and even though I don't know when that will be, I know I will come back to you, like seeing an old friend after a long time apart. Au revoir, mon amie - and thank you for everything.

France, you really suck sometimes



As tonight is my last night in France, I am really starting to reflect on my time here. Many of my friends/family know that my eight months here was no walk in the park - there were several times where I was so frustrated about living here that all I wanted to do was leave. I have kept a running list of these frustrating items of culture and am posting it below. **Please note: this is a list derived from my personal experiences living in France. I understand these items might have been due to my location in a rural town in Provence and that other people living in other regions may not have had these annoyances.**

Things I will not miss about France

PAPERWORK. Everything here requires a form, and I mean everything. Not only that, but specified documentation for each form as well. Just to open an internet contract, you need a copy of proof of identity, a RIB from your bank proving you have a bank account and a copy of your proof of housing. And then to shut down accounts, you must send a recommended letter to the company - you can't just go into a branch office and say you want to terminate your account. Lots of useless papers, all the time.
 
DISORGANIZATION. I find this to be directly connected with the laid-back attitude that the French have about life. I find it funny that so much paperwork and forms are demanded, because once your give all these items, don't be surprised when it takes two months to process them.

Strikes. Whenever they feel like it. Teachers, transportation, etc. I will be happy to get back to a place where strikes are not so commonplace.



Lack of communication. Specifically in my case, classes being cancelled without one word to me about it. I would show up and wait outside the classroom to see no students and no teacher. 

Nothing being open. Ever. It is a general European standard that everything is closed on Sunday. I can deal with that. But after much research, I have noticed many things closed Monday and Wednesday as well. And most times you can't even trust the hours they have posted on the shops. For example, today, my last day in town, I went to a resale shop to sell some DVDs. The sign said that it should have been open, but it wasn't. I guess I never figured out the schedule of all the shops here. 

NO WIFI. Ok that is an exaggeration - there are now three establishments in Apt that offer free Wifi. If it works. Again, just today I went to my favorite Wifi hole, and it didn't work. Beyond that, internet here costs a ton, and you pay by the usage!

Having to take public transportation to get anywhere/not having a car. This was just my personal experience living in small town France but relying on eight buses a day to get anywhere kind of gets old.
 
Not being to find my shoe size ANYWHERE. Any 42s up  in here? I have been told here that my shoe size is for men.

Taking 2 weeks to get something done that could have gotten done in one day. It’s France’s law.

Poop on the sidewalks. Everywhere. Is it so hard to clean up after your animal?!

The weird hairstyles of French men. Especially the weird version of the undercut hairstyle - only works for Macklemore, dudes. 

Needless to say, I won't be missing these things when I return to the U.S. Happy to say au revoir to these petites choses!

Santorini, you win



After a grumpy*, rainy takeoff in Milan, two hours later we arrived in Athens, Greece with the bluest skies you could imagine. To get to our hostel for the night, it was said that taking the metro would be the easiest, as it went straight from the airport to our stop. However, finding the right train to take at the airport proved to be a little more complicated. With lack of signage (let alone signs not in the greek alphabet), we decided to ask several times to make sure we were in the right place to catch the metro. In the process, we met two Polish students going the same way and chatted with them as we took the forty-five minute journey to center Athens. As we came up at the Monastiraki stop, we instantly saw people. The square was filled the brim with vendors selling their trade, from leather sandals to tzaziki spices, and as we turned around to get a view behind us, all we could see was the acropolis perched on a hill. We found our way to Ermou street, one of the most popular streets in Athens and where our hostel was located. After walking a little bit, we finally reached the address given for our lodging… except that it was an antiques store. At that moment, we tried not to panic but I have to admit, it was a little bizarre. As I glanced to my left, I noticed out of the corner of my eye “Pella”, which was the name of our hostel. Sure enough, about 50 meters to our left, we found our hostel. 

Once settled in, we went down to the port to pick up our tickets for the ferry to Santorini and had a wonderful dinner with a view of the Acropolis. We decided to get some traditional Greek food: pork gyros with fries and baklava for dessert. This would be the first of many gyros we would have during the week, though this one was more expensive and deconstructed. Either way, delicious! After the meal, the server came by and set two shots of ouzo on our table with a clever smile as he turned his shoulder before we could say anything. Even though neither of us are fans of the Greek liquid courage, we both said “Opa!” and enjoyed our free gift. 

After a night of barely any sleep, we boarded our ferry to Santorini at 7am. It was an eight hour ferry, and although I had been getting used to long journeys to get us from point A to point B, I was incredibly anxious to get to the beautiful crescent shaped island. However, the ferry was so comfortable, eight hours passed with no problems. The views of the blue Aegean sea going by, the little islands specked with crisp white houses… it was hard to not be enthralled with the surroundings. Also, the wifi and freddocino** might have helped. 

And so at 3:00pm, we arrived in the port of Santorini. As we had asked for a transfer to our hostel (which was more like a hotel), we were happy to find a man standing with a sign reading “Dina’s Place” quite easily. However, it soon became increasingly clear that he was doing a number of drop-offs to different hotels, and we would all not fit in his van. Suddenly, he turned to us and said, “You will go with my cousin! He will you off at the hotel he is going to – wait there and I will come get you!” Blindly, we got in the van with his cousin, went up the incredibly windy path from the port, and entered into Fira, one of the main towns on Santorini and where we were staying. Dropping us off on the side of the road next to a convenience store fruit stand, we couldn’t help but wonder what we would do if he didn’t come back for us. Just then, his van pulled up and we were whisked away to our hostel.

Arriving at the hostel, it was clear that this was not a hostel. It was a hotel. George, the receptionist and owner, was extremely nice and told us everything we needed to know about Santorini, including how to avoid tourist traps. I cannot stress how kind of a person he was – when we tried to pay and did not have exact change, he said, “It’s no problem, pay later! In fact, if you don’t want to pay during your stay, that’s fine! Just mail it to us after!” There is something to be said about the easy –going attitude of the Greeks. Our room was wonderful and we stepped outside to a quaint and beautiful pool area. I could not recommend this place enough!




That evening, we took our time exploring Fira, wandering aimlessly down its narrow streets, looking through shops and enjoying the sunset (though because of clouds it was not so nice). We found a place to get gyros (which we frequented many times during our five day stay) and single bite baklavas of all flavors! I had to get a classic but I also got chocolate with walnut, very delicious!

Fira and me
Left: original. Right: chocolate walnut.

Our first full day in Santorini, we woke up to cloudy skies. Seeing the weather, we decided to take a bus to Akrotiri, where there are excavations of ancient civilization. This city had been rebuilt several times due to earthquakes and was destroyed from the eruption of the volcano of Santorini. On the bus, we made a friend: Amanda, a Canadian who is teaching biology in Bulgaria. The three of us spent the next few days together – it was amazing meeting someone who also had the experience living and teaching abroad and also to talk about traveling! After exploring the excavations, we walked to the nearby Red Beach, which was quite a sight to see. The contrast between the red rock and the blue water was dramatic and beautiful. We stuck our feet in the water and enjoyed the calming sound of the waves.

Me, Alie and Amanda at the excavations
That is one red beach
Wanting a change of scenery, we took the next bus to the most picturesque town in Santorini: Oia. It took us a few tries to pronounce this town correctly (“ee-ah”) but the fact that it is regarded as the best place to stay in Santorini couldn’t be more true. With the perfect view of the sunset from its placement on the tip of the crescent, the perfect white stoned buildings, the contrasting blue domes of the churches, Oia is where I would stay when I come back to in Santorini. We spent some time wandering the alleys and found a beautiful overlook onto the town where we sat for a while. While the crowds started forming where we were sitting, we realized that we had the best place to watch the sunset, without even trying! This and an impromptu local play about Agamemnon made our evening nothing short of spectacular.

Oia
I have never seen a sunset that looked like a sun rise...
Hurrying to catch the last bus to Fira, we left fairly early, so we could stop for a tequila sunrise and a bathroom break. After the very scary night bus back to Fira (guys, it was just cliff and ocean past the non-existent guard rail), we went to Mama’s house for dinner, where I had a greek salad, some tzaziki and a Mythos to drink. Although I do not like beer, I had to try the number one Hellenic beer in production. My review? Not for me – I’ll stick to wine anyday.



The following day, we woke to beautiful sunny skies – the weather that I had imagined for Santorini. We decided to take a boat excursion to see the still-active volcano of Santorini and the hot springs on another nearby burnt island. And so, we took yet another cable car down to the Old Port of Santorini, leaving Alie and I to scream and Amanda to laugh at us, and we hopped on board a ship to the black mass that is across from the crescent of Santorini. We hiked up to the peak of this volcano, which might have been the cause of the mythical Atlantis. Smelling the strong sulfur and feeling the heat of the volcano with my bare hands, I couldn’t help but sing to myself “This girl is on fire….”

View of Santorini from the volcano
After, we boarded the boat yet again and headed off to the hot springs. We came prepared with our bathing suits under our clothes, but expected to pull into land and get off the boat, relaxing into these warm bodies of water. Once we pulled up, we were told that the boat can’t reach that small piece of land – that if you wanted to wade in the hot springs, you had to jump out of the boat and swim there. Nothing in the world had sounded more terrifying to me and I considered not doing it. However, I took a deep breath and leaped into the cold, blue water of the Aegean and swam until I reached the orange warmth of the hot springs. I couldn’t help but have the hugest smile on my face the entire time, to see such beauty around me and feel a part of it – it was my favorite thing that I have done during my time abroad this year. As the horn blew for us to come back to the ship, I couldn’t help but be sad that it was such a short time, but it is one that I will remember forever.

The only picture I managed to get of the hot springs. You can see to the left of the white building some orange in the water, that's them!
Once we reached Fira, we relaxed by the pool a bit and then took the next bus to Perissa, which is home to a black sand beach. Santorini has two black sand beaches: one in Perissa and one in Kamari. By the time we reached Perissa, it was quite dead and the sun had already began setting. Still we enjoyed a nice meal on comfy sunbeds and enjoyed the scenery. That night, we enjoyed one last night wandering around Fira together, shopping and eating ice cream. Then, we decided to go for a drink at Two Brothers Bar. Though it seemed like such a small place, the atmosphere inside was twenty times bigger than the locale. We couldn’t help but sing along with the throwback music, laugh at people around us and cringe at people getting a Head Shot.*** After spending two days together, we said our goodbyes to Amanda – it was so nice to have met her during our stay  and to have spent so much time with her!
 


The next day, Alie and I headed out to the other black sand beach, Kamari. I instantly preferred this beach, much more relaxed and much more space to lay. We spent the afternoon lounging and soaking up the sun. I could not get over the relaxing sound of the waves and the crisp blue against the huge rock façade at the beach. After a quick stop in Fira, we went off to Oia one last time to watch the sunset. This was easily the best sunset we saw, and we met a wonderful couple from Arizona while we were there too. It was kind of sad thinking that it was our last time in Oia during our stay, but I know that I will be coming back – it is just too beautiful to not return again!



Once we got back to Fira, we decided to be bold and do something that we had constantly talked about trying: going to a fish bar. There are several of these on Santorini and I know they are also quite popular in Asia. It’s a place where you stick your feet in water and little fish come up and eat all the dead skin off your feet! It might sound kind of gross (because it is) but I didn’t mind it at all! Alie on the other hand was pretty freaked out. With our feet all soft and rejuvenated, we went for a nice seafood dinner at Nikolas, a place recommended by our hotel. We had some shrimp spaghetti, tzaziki and Santo vino (wine made right on the island). Stuffed to the brim, we slept well on our last night in Santorini.

On our final day on the island, we decided to just relax. We went back to Kamari and acted as beach bums, soaking up every last bit of sun possible. We watched our last sunset in Fira, had our last pork gyros (which I am now having withdrawals of) and tried loukoumades, a fried honey donut, with chocolate and ice cream. We also met some nice friends from Canada while waiting until midnight for our bus to our ferry – it never ceases to amaze me the great people you meet while traveling. As we boarded and settled into our cabin to sleep on our way to Athens, I couldn’t help but think that it was the end of something great. Santorini, hands down, you win – I can only hope that I will return very soon.


*Grumpy on my part because I had to pay an extra 35 euro to check my bag…. stupid Easyjet!
**Freddocino is like a frappé… but BETTER! I had totally forgotten about these things, and I was obsessed with trying to find one on the island after consuming an amazing one on the ferry. Alas, I could not find any, and I was left with just the memory of the first one.
***Head Shot: When you take a shot wearing a helmet and the second you’re done, someone bangs your head with a baseball bat.

Mamma Mia, Italia!



Getting up at 7am in Nice, France, we boarded a short regional train to take us across the border to Italy. During the train ride, we met a couple from Tazmania that were going to Cinque Terre as well and without saying so, we all decided to hang together for the rest of the day. Going to Ventimiglia, then Genoa, we were finally on the last train which was taking us to Riomaggiore (the last of the five Cinque Terre villages). We might have been on the train for about ten minutes when an elderly man in a suit came up to Alie and I. Noticing I had my feet on the seat and thinking that he wanted to sit down, I took my feet down and showed with my hands that he could sit there. He shook his head and instead said “tickets”. We hastily showed him our tickets, at which point he began quickly talking in italian, obviously telling us there was something wrong with our tickets. We kept repeating “sorry, we don’t know what you are saying”, until finally in fairly broken English he said that our tickets were not validated. Not knowing we had to validate these tickets, we said we would get off the train at the next stop and put them through the machine. However, he did not wait for the next stop and immediately said “50 euros” – the fine for two unvalidated tickets. 

All at once, the five Italian commuters sitting around us started yelling at him. Neither of us know Italian, but I can pick up a few words here and there because of the similarity to French. What did I pick up? Tourists, English, not fair. These five locals, who did not know us from Adam, were trying to prevent us from paying the fine! The conductor looked ambushed but kept fighting back, while Alie and I wrestled up the euros to give to him. The woman sat beside us turned to us and said, “You didn’t know you had to validate, right? Make sure you get a receipt so he doesn’t pocket the money!” A moment later, he took back our tickets and hand validated them, meaning that the fifty euros we had prepared went back in our wallets.  Because we were traveling with the Tazmanians, we got the same deal for them. I will never forget that moment, when five boisterous Italians stuck their necks out for us. As each of them left the train to their various destinations, we couldn’t help but repeat “grazie” several times with huge smiles of appreciation.

Besides this minor detail, the train ride was absolutely gorgeous – it’s maybe my favorite train journey that I have done in Europe thus far. It follows the coast, so you get to see small coast town after small coast town, with the sunshine shimmering on the Mediterranean the entire way. Once we arrived in Riomaggiore, we found the hostel office and he said to follow him up a few stairs. Few was definitely an understatement. We were staying at nearly the highest point in Riomaggiore, so when we went up one row of stairs, another would appear. Once we got settled and changed, we headed back out to do some hiking. Hiking through the Cinque Terre villages is a well-known tourist attraction, people come from far and wide to hike these magnificent trails that promise stunning views of the coastline and the villages. Since the next day it was supposed to rain, we set off in the late afternoon to make the most out of a beautiful sunny day. We were disappointed to hear that only one hiking trail was open – many were closed due to landslides that have been occurring in the area. Nevertheless, we took the first regional train to Vernazza and headed off onto the trail to Monterosso.
Hiking this trail was easily in my top five things I have done this experience abroad. With the sun shining on the clear blue water contrasting against the bountiful green earth, words and pictures truly do not do it justice. It is something that you have to do yourself to experience its beauty.

Vernazza




When were reaching Monterosso (the end of the trail), we vaguely heard upbeat, Italian music and a woman loudly speaking a mix of English and Spanish. We looked down to find a man who cut a hole in the fence of his vineyard and was selling his freshly made wines, limoncello and lemonade. And the woman? Her name was Joann and she hailed from DC, and she convinced us to buy a lemonade and chat with her awhile. To say that this was a pinnacle moment of our whole whirlwind trip through Europe would be an understatement – we were quoting Joann throughout the remainder of our travels.* Those are the moments you will always remember: the interesting people you meet while you are traveling all over the world. After exchanging e-mails, we continued on our way, reaching Monterosso just as the sun was setting. We ran out into the water, feeling like kids as we joyfully reflected on such an amazing day.

Our pre-Joann view of the vineyard
HAPPY
We took a train back to Riomaggiore and had what is a huge fad in this part of Italy: a fried cone of goodness! We went for fried calamari and fries and topped it off with a necessary gelato for dessert. We slept well and woke up to the sound of rain outside. Not feeling eager to walk through its wetness, we slept in and convinced ourselves to go outside and explore the other villages by train. When we arrived in Monterosso, it had blustering wind and was raining. Needless to say, we hopped the next train to Vernazza. It might have had something to do with the fact that the sun came out, but Vernazza was definitely my favorite out of the five villages - the most picturesque and the most things to do. And it helps that the hiking trail from Vernazza to Monterosso is regarded as the best.


We spent the rest of the afternoon exploring Corniglia and Manarola, both beautiful in their own ways, and then headed back to Riomaggiore. This was already our last day in town, and I was left wishing we had more time and better weather conditions to hike between all the villages. Nevertheless, I had a traditional Italian dinner of spaghetti and tiramisu and got to bed early for a full day of train travel the following day.

View from Manarola
It was May 1st and we woke up early to catch the first train to Pisa. I knew that this day was a huge holiday in France but I was wondering how it was going to be in Italy. Once arriving in Pisa, we went to ask about the bus that takes you directly to the leaning tower. The woman shook her head and simply said “not running”, it was the holiday. So, we set off on foot and walked through Pisa to find its crowning glory. Walking down the street and seeing the leaning tower at the end was kind of a surreal experience – it was REALLY leaning! I didn’t expect it to be so dramatic! We of course stopped and took all the obligatory photos, had a nice pizza margarhita lunch and then hustled back to the station for our four hour train ride to Milan.

Being a super tourist yet again
Upon arrival in Milan, we took the metro and found our hostel, which was more like a BnB on the seventh floor of an apartment building. Once we paid, we explained we had one night and asked for the best way to get to the Duomo, the number one thing to see in Milano. They explained to us the metro routes but then said that the metros would be closing in 25 minutes because of the holiday. Taking this as our cue, we hustled off to the metro and came up in the bustling center of Milan. The Duomo di Milano was just as amazing as everyone describes, very intricate, with every single detail showing its beauty. Then, we took our last night in Italy to eat all of the things we hadn’t gotten a chance to yet: cannoli, gnocchi.. and of course one last gelato. I mean, when in Italy!

Duomo of Milan
After standing in the taxi line for half an hour, we shared a taxi back to the hostel, which brought back the memories I had of horrible Italian driving. Leaving Italy the following morning was kind of sad. Italy is one of the countries that I feel oddly at home in – I don’t know the language, though I have seen almost every major place in the country. I feel comfortable there. And their food is downright delicious! I know that whenever I want to come back again, Italia will be there with open arms, welcoming me with two big scoops of gelato and a shot of limoncello. Ciao for now!

*Our favorite quote? “Girls, marry with potential. FINANCIAL POTENTIAL.” She had maybe a 
few glasses of wine……